I have a question for you, Dear Reader.
During what fraction of the time you spent at each major career stage in academics - undergrad, grad school, postdoc, faculty level (TT or no, plz specify) - did you feel comfortable?
Not did you feel it was easy exactly, but did you feel as though you had it handled? As though there was little doubt you were doing a good job of what you were expected to do.
For me, undergrad all 4 yrs, grad school 3 yrs, postdoc maybe a scattered 2 yrs total time.
At the faculty level maybe my first three years and again for maybe 6 mo last year.
For faculty, make special note of the tenure decision- were you feeling comfortable in the few years leading up to that?